I am a goal setter. In fact, January 1st my daughter and I go to a locally owned, quaint coffee shop and spend a few hours reviewing the goals we set last year, making a host of new ones for the upcoming year. Here are a few from my 2013 list:
Pretty typical and uninspiring. The other problem is that they are not measurable and my goal list is too long to remember on a day-to-day basis. In fact, when setting goals it is essential that they are measurable so that they can be evaluated in the end. If you set out to "try one recipe a month" you will know whether you have achieved that goal. However, "get fit" is less helpful when determining if there is success. A better goal might be to "Lose 10 pounds" or even "trim down so that my clothes no longer feel tight."
I have always made a goal list because I love this sort of thing and it serves a great purpose. However, once I read the piece about receiving in 2009, mentioned in the previous blog, I discovered that I wanted to approach each year also with an overarching theme to direct my actions through out the year. I then embarked on an "Open to Receive" year, setting an intention to beckon this to my life. Within two weeks I won an iPod at a tradeshow and received a large check from my mother who wanted to contribute to my business. I was expecting something along the lines of "receiving love from others" but was quick to realize how helpful my setting a theme of the year was and opened myself up to receiving anything and everything. Continue reading